Casual dating 3 somes
The thing to remember about casual dating is that is basically means that you’re seeing each other regularly or semi-regularly, sleeping together, but there is no expressed exclusivity or long term commitment.It’s more like Indefinite Dating than Casual Dating.
We take trips and go to events together and meet each other’s friends.At this point we’re only seeing each other once every other week, and almost three weeks had passed before our most recent date. Is it even worth it to continue dating him at all then, or am I just being unrealistic expecting that people that are just casually dating could still see each other once a week?I’m curious to know how do fellow online daters define casual dating or as Ok Cupid likes to call it, short-term dating?I think the bottom line is that I probably just can’t handle casual/ expiration date type of dating, if this is what it is. I don’t think it’s unrealistic to think that people who are casually dating can see each other once a week or more.In fact, I would say that that is the norm for casual daters.I think people assume that casual dating is just meeting for drinks and then going home and having sex.
Which it can be, and there’s nothing wrong with that.
A lot of people like to place importance on the logistics of the dates, how much money is spent, how much time is spent together and what activities are involved other than sex.
Comment: I’ve been seeing this guy for the past few months and he’s made it clear to me he doesn’t have time to devote to a serious relationship because his new job takes up too much time and energy and he has no idea when that will all change, plus he’s new to the city (I know, three DEFINITE red flags for not being relationship-ready: new job, new crazy hours, new to the city).
I am looking for a serious relationship, but still have fun with him.
So I’m trying to date him while I continue to look for/try to date other men I like.
He’s told me despite not wanting to restrict me from dating other people, he would still like to continue dating because he thinks we really “get each other”, says he knows that’s difficult to find, and thinks we have so much fun together when we do see each other.