I remind them that in an effort to meet their own less than empathic sexual agenda, they have undermined their personal integrity while simultaneously dismissing their partner’s right to know that their relationship rulebook has been unilaterally revised.
Rather than debating the nature of "being male” with such clients, which is hardly productive from a therapeutic standpoint, I remind them that when a man makes a vow of monogamy to a spouse or significant other, and then breaks that vow, he is in violation of a relationship contract.
I further discuss with them the idea that infidelity is not defined by any specific act (sexual or otherwise), but rather by .
(The highly misogynistic nature of a few of the comments suggests that at least a few male readers were I’d leave the men alone.) But now that blog is here. Men are somewhat different than women when it comes to cheating, and a lot of that difference arises from the fact that men tend to define infidelity rather loosely.
Keep in mind this famous statement: “I did not have sexual relations with that woman.” More generally, most men would say that utilizing porn as a sexual outlet while in a primary, committed relationship is not cheating. What if the person you’re sexting with doesn’t live anywhere near you and there’s no chance you’ll ever meet up in person? While you’re video chatting, does it matter if your or the other person’s clothes are off?
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In their opinion, they to spread their seed and propagate the race because, apparently, they (and they alone) sit atop the Darwinian sexual food chain.
I hear this and similar excuses constantly in my practice.
(Most women would disagree; for proof, heterosexual male readers could just ask their wife or girlfriend what she thinks.) So does viewing porn count as infidelity? How about if you are complaining to this other person about your current relationship? Back in pre-Internet days, the concept of cheating was pretty straightforward: It involved actual in-the-flesh sexual contact.
But now, a man in Paris, Texas can mutually masturbate, via webcam, with a woman in Paris, France.
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